271 - Cultivating Connection: Stoic Insights on Loneliness
Sep 14, 2023
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Explore the struggles of loneliness during the pandemic and the importance of connecting with others. Personal experience of living alone and the negative impact on mental health. Alarming suicide rates, stigma around men seeking help, and strategies for managing loneliness. Taking care of physical health and reaching out to combat loneliness. Taking responsibility for loneliness and joining a supportive community promoting Stoic principles.
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Recognizing and addressing feelings of loneliness is crucial for overall well-being and requires active steps such as engaging in creative hobbies, seeking professional help, and reaching out to friends and family.
Connection with others is essential for personal growth and building a healthier society, and participating in positive group activities strengthens connections and helps combat loneliness.
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Loneliness in the Pandemic
The pandemic has led to increased feelings of loneliness and isolation, with around 50% of American adults reporting substantial levels of loneliness even before COVID. Loneliness is associated with higher risks of developing heart disease, dementia, depression, and stroke. It also leads to anger, resentment, and paranoia. Loneliness is a key factor in addiction and suicide, with community connections playing a crucial role in breaking cycles of addiction and supporting well-being.
Dealing with Loneliness
To manage loneliness, it is important to recognize and listen to our emotions rather than suppress or ignore them. Taking care of physical health is also critical, as improving fitness and making healthier choices positively impact mental well-being. Engaging in creative hobbies or new interests can help fill the void of loneliness. Reaching out to friends, family, or seeking professional help is essential, and participating in group activities or online communities allows for new connections and shared interests.
The Importance of Connection
Connection with others is vital for our well-being, just as Tom Hanks' character found solace in creating a friend out of a volleyball in the movie Cast Away. Loneliness often arises from life changes, such as moving, job transitions, or relationship endings, making it crucial to address feelings of loneliness rather than avoiding them. Engaging in positive and uplifting group activities is encouraged, as it strengthens connections and fosters personal growth. Connecting with others not only benefits individual well-being but also contributes to building a healthier society.
Do struggle with loneliness? Have the last few years of lockdowns and isolation been hard on you? Today I want to talk about loneliness, why it’s something that shouldn’t be ignored, and why it’s important for us to reach out and connect to others.“We are waves of the same sea, leaves of the same tree, flowers of the same garden.”—Seneca