#441 Swipe Right: The Real College Sex Scene

Jul 8, 2025

In this engaging conversation, Sienna Alexandra, a rising sophomore at San Diego State and daughter of renowned sexologist Dr. Sadie Allison, opens up about college hookup culture through a Gen Z lens. She breaks down the complexities of 'situationships' and the art of 'sneaky linking' on campus. Sienna shares her top three tips for confident, safe, and enjoyable experiences in modern dating. Plus, discover how creativity plays a role in sexual expression as she previews her upcoming single, "Back to the Beginning."

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ADVICE

Choose Safe Sex Toys

Use high-quality, body-safe sex toys to enhance intimacy and pleasure safely.
Avoid toys with chemical smells or unknown materials to protect your body.

ANECDOTE

Open Sex Talk with Mom

Sienna Alexandra openly talks to her mom, Dr. Sadie Allison, about her sexual experiences like a best friend.
This openness has helped her embrace sex positivity and educate her peers.

INSIGHT

Gen Z College Hookup Dynamics

College hookup culture today heavily favors casual encounters over dating.
Females tend to experience stronger emotional bonding from sex, leading to more post-hookup pain than males.

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Welcome to a no-filter tour of Gen Z hookup culture with Sienna Alexandra—rising sophomore at San Diego State, soulful singer-songwriter, and daughter of legendary sexologist Dr. Sadie Allison. Part “mini Dr. Sadie,” part dorm-room oracle, Sienna pulls back the covers on what sex, dating, and everything-in-between look like for today’s college crowd.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

The real story behind Gen Z buzzwords—translated, Shameless-style
How hookups actually happen (spoiler: Hinge still has a hinge in the game) and the surprising script Gen Z follows once the bedroom door closes
What it means to be in a situationship, sneaky-linking your way through campus life because you’re not clapped, you’re fine shYt!
Sienna’s top 3 tips for navigating college sex with confidence, consent, and zero cringe
Why casual doesn’t have to mean careless—and how to keep pleasure, safety, and self-respect at the center of every swipe
The musical side of sexual expression (peep her upcoming single “Back to the Beginning”) and why creativity is a secret weapon in dating

Audience perks: Walk away fluent in Gen Z lingo, armed with fresh strategies for healthier hookups, and ready to mentor (or mingle with) the next wave of sex-positive humans.

Follow Sienna on TikTok and Instagram @siennaalexandra_

Stream her music on Spotify and all major streaming platforms and check out her next single, “Back to the Beginning” that just dropped!

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