heretics. 493. Men Are Wearing Their Mother’s Skin - Dr Az Hakeem
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Dec 16, 2024 Dr. Az Hakeem, a British psychiatrist and psychotherapist renowned for his work on gender dysphoria, dives deep into the complexities of gender identity. He examines the psychological landscapes of trauma and sexuality, particularly among those on the autism spectrum. The discussion highlights the emotional aftermath of male sexual experiences and critiques societal norms around gender expression, especially at events like Pride. Hakeem encourages critical questioning of gender narratives and the implications of legal changes on identity.
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Trauma Roots in Fetishism
- Dr. Az Hakeem shares a case of a fetishistic transvestite whose trauma was linked to his mother's death and fetish behavior.
- Trauma often forms the root of sexual perversions, as seen in many patients at the Portman Clinic.
Autism and Transsexuality Link
- Male transsexuals Dr. Hakeem treated were autistic and often asexual, engaging in sexual acts mechanically.
- Autistic transsexuals tend to lack fluid sexuality, affecting their post-transition romantic and sexual preferences.
Avoid Affirmation Without Challenge
- People confused about their gender need neutral exploratory psychotherapy rather than affirmation.
- Affirming without challenge can be toxic, as it may reinforce confusion instead of encouraging reflection.