Stewarding Fatherhood Well with Jonathon Lewis

Jun 13, 2025

Ask episode

Chapters

Transcript

Episode notes

“For you know how, like a father with his children, we exhorted each one of you and encouraged you and charged you to walk in a manner worthy of God, who calls you into his own kingdom and glory.” - 1 Thessalonians 2:11-12

With Father’s Day approaching, we’re asking a deeper question: What kind of legacy are we leaving as men, as dads, and as stewards of what God has entrusted to us? Jonathan Lewis from Fathers for Fathers joins us to talk about fatherhood, faith, and the financial discipleship that shapes generations.

Jonathan Lewis is a Certified Exit Planning Advisor (CEPA®), a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA®), and President of Eastport Financial Group Inc. He is also the founder of Fathers for Fathers, a faith-based organization dedicated to restoring hope, healing, and purpose in the lives of men, especially fathers.

A Story Redeemed

When Jonathan was 15, he experienced a trauma no child should face—dragging his father’s lifeless body onto a beach in Nova Scotia after a drowning accident. That moment became a fracture point in his life, leading to years of instability, homelessness, guilt, and emotional isolation.

But out of those ashes came clarity: a calling to reach other men who feel lost, alone, and ashamed. His ministry, Fathers for Fathers, is a direct response to the epidemic of fatherlessness and emotional isolation plaguing men today.

The Epidemic Few Talk About

84% of men say they don’t have a single person they can talk to.

Guys have been trained to withdraw, but we need each other. If you’re listening and feel like you’ve failed as a father, or you don’t even have the strength to keep going, you’re not alone. You can do this, but not by yourself.

The solution is community and accountability. And for men who do have a support system, pursue others. Don’t take the first 12 ‘no’s as a brush-off. Broken men want to be pursued. They’re just afraid.

What Does Faithful Fatherhood Look Like?

So, what does it mean to be a successful father?

First, if you’re still breathing, your story isn’t over. You haven’t missed your chance.

Using a football analogy from Fathers for Fathers’ upcoming study, life can be described as a game we’re all born into—on the wrong team. But we don’t have to stay there. Through Jesus Christ, we’re invited to join the winning team. But it requires repentance, humility, and a willingness to fight.

And it often starts with small steps.

Practical Steps Toward Restoration

For divorced dads and those estranged from their children, you may think there’s no way back. But there is. If you’re not in your kids’ lives, start. If you haven’t supported their mom, own it. If you’ve been battling secret sin—confess it.

These are hard words, but they’re spoken with deep compassion. God will honor you when you honor Him. This ministry isn’t about beating men up. It’s about helping them get back in the game.

Stewardship Starts at Home

Stewardship isn’t just about money. If you’re generous with your wealth but not your love or your time, you’ve missed the point.

Stewardship begins with the way a man loves and leads his family, especially his wife. When reading Ephesians 5, men might say, ‘I’d take a bullet for my wife.’ But Christ calls us to something harder: dying to ourselves daily.

Stewardship, then, is about priorities: honoring God with your money, your time, your attention, and your affection.

A Prayer for Dads

If you’re a father or a man who feels discouraged, who is ready for more, and who is just hanging on. Pray this out loud:

“Lord, I pray that Your Spirit would touch the heart of the man listening who thinks he’s too far gone. Remind him that nothing can separate us from Your love, not even failure. Let him know Jesus already put on the jersey for him. I pray for courage, for repentance, and for grace. Thank you for the scandalous grace that says You would’ve sent Jesus for just one man. You sent Him for all of us.”

If you’re a father who feels broken, or if you know one, visit FathersForFathers.org. You’ll find tools, encouragement, and a brotherhood of men committed to healing and hope.

This Father’s Day, let’s not just celebrate the dads who’ve done it right. Let’s rally around the men who are trying to get it right, one step at a time.

On Today’s Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:

I’m curious about nursing home costs and what happens to my parents' assets. I learned that Medicare covers limited skilled nursing care, and Medicaid restricts asset access, meaning my siblings and I likely won’t be able to access their money while they’re in a nursing home.
I’m currently working and planning to retire soon. How could I invest in ways that align with my faith and ensure I'm not supporting companies that go against my beliefs?
I wanted clarification on fixed indexed annuities. I wasn’t familiar with them and wanted to understand if they were a good investment option.

Resources Mentioned:

Remember, you can call in to ask your questions every workday at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. You can also visit FaithFi.com to connect with our online community and partner with us as we help more people live as faithful stewards of God’s resources.

Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.