The Ten Minute Bible Hour Podcast

PLMN075 - I’ve Done the Science, and Sure Enough, Dropping Your Daughter Off at College Makes You Cry

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Jan 30, 2026
A reflection on the ache of sending a child off to college and why painful separations can be necessary. A comparison between that personal sorrow and the biblical story of Onesimus. A discussion of Paul’s emotional struggle and practical reasons for returning someone despite the cost. A focus on reconciliation, consent, and repairing broken relationships as central themes.
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ANECDOTE

Bittersweet College Goodbye

  • Matt describes the pain of sending his daughter to college while celebrating her growth and success.
  • He compares that bittersweet goodbye to Paul's emotional struggle about Onesimus in Philemon.
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Emotion Signals Sacrifice

  • Paul felt deep affection for Onesimus and preferred to keep him close, which complicates the decision to send him back.
  • Matt argues Paul's emotion signals sacrifice and a bigger purpose beyond personal comfort.
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Feelings As Genuine Appeal

  • Matt rejects reading Paul's emotions as manipulative; he sees them as part of a multifaceted, sincere appeal.
  • The emotional appeal demonstrates Paul accepted personal cost to pursue reconciliation.
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