The Guilty Feminist 435. Does History Have a Right Side with Jessica Fostekew
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May 5, 2025 
Jessica Fostekew, a talented comedian and podcast host, joins the conversation to explore the nuanced topic of empathy and the evolving nature of ethics in society. The discussion highlights the differences between cognitive and affective empathy, while also examining how future generations might judge today’s practices, particularly regarding animal rights. They humorously reflect on parenting styles and the complexities of historical figures, encouraging a deeper engagement with controversial ideas and the importance of community dialogue in shaping beliefs.
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Therapy Reveals Hidden Emotions
- Deborah Frances-White shares a therapy-inspired story about a couple resolving conflict by uncovering underlying loneliness.
- It illustrates how deeper emotional needs often lie beneath surface disagreements.
"Stamm" Defines Warm Community
- Deborah repurposes the German word "Stamm" to describe a warm, stable, and belonging community.
- "Stamm" enriches the idea of tribe by emphasizing connection and inclusion.
People Believe They Are Right
- People rarely believe they are on the wrong side of history; many justify their beliefs as right or necessary.
- Cognitive empathy allows understanding another's reasoning, even if you disagree emotionally.