"Why Are You Always So Defensive?"

One of the most common questions Scott and Jess get about Robot Unicorn is: “Was your communication always this good? How did you learn to be less defensive and stop fighting in your relationship?”

In this episode, Scott and Jess dive into their journey from high school sweethearts to happily married parents. They share valuable insights on:

- How to move past defensiveness and truly listen to your partner

- The importance of anticipating each other's needs

- Why validating feelings isn't enough - you need to get curious

- How to have difficult conversations without accusations or blame

- Building a foundation of safety and trust in your relationship

Listeners will gain practical tips for improving communication with their partner, even during challenging seasons of life. Scott and Jess's honest, unscripted conversation offers a relatable look at the work required to build a strong relationship. Whether you're newlyweds or long-time partners, this episode has the wisdom to help take your communication to the next level.

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Credits:

Editing by The Pod Cabin 

Artwork by Wallflower Studio

Production by Nurtured First

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