Robot Unicorn "Why Are You Always So Defensive?"
Jul 29, 2024
Scott and Jess share their journey from high school sweethearts to parents, highlighting how their communication evolved. They discuss the challenge of being defensive and the importance of listening to each other. Anticipating needs and finding the right timing for tough conversations are key themes. The duo emphasizes validation but adds the necessity of curiosity to build trust. Through personal anecdotes, they provide relatable strategies for navigating the complexities of communication in both parenting and romance.
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High-School Sweethearts' Rocky Start
- Scott and Jess started dating in high school and acknowledge they were immature early on.
- Their early patterns included silent treatment, fawning, and passive responses that hurt communication.
Marriage Strain After Third Child
- The worst season came after their third child when work, no maternity leave, and newborn care crashed their routines.
- They spent months exhausted, arguing, and feeling like the relationship might not survive before a reset trip helped them recover.
Reset With A Break Or Trip
- Take a deliberate break or change the environment to reset relationship stress and perspective.
- Use time away to reconnect as partners so you can return calmer and more cooperative.