Overthink Togetherness with Dan Zahavi
Nov 4, 2025
Dan Zahavi, a philosopher and director at the Center for Subjectivity Research, dives into the nature of togetherness in a digital age. He explores how modern communication shifts our understanding of social bonds and identity, emphasizing that we may never truly be alone due to internalized voices. Zahavi also discusses the importance of dyadic relationships, arguing that love intertwines lives while maintaining personal autonomy. He highlights how our communal identities are shaped by historical contexts and empathic perceptions of others.
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Hosts Compare Remote And In-Person
- David and Ellie compare in-person versus remote recording, noting richer bodily cues and presence in person.
- Ellie highlights reduced distraction in-person and the larger difference between synchronous and asynchronous contact.
Inner Voices Aren't Always Pathology
- David cites 'Voices of Reason, Voices of Insanity' to show inner voices function socially rather than pathologically.
- Ellie connects this to developmental dependency and introjected social voices shaping selfhood from birth.
Children Use Imaginary Companions
- David and Ellie discuss Alison Gopnik's work showing children use imaginary companions to develop theory of mind.
- They note even solitary play often involves social modeling shaping cognitive development.
