This podcast explores the influence of absent fathers on masculinity, discusses cheating dynamics and its impact on men, examines the power and stigma of anger, highlights the importance of encouragement and appreciation, emphasizes the power of teamwork and seeking help, and emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with the right people for success.
The absence of fathers in many households can lead to a lack of masculine role models for boys, resulting in a need for women to fill in the gaps and provide guidance on masculinity.
Men need to take ownership of their masculine identity and show up as leaders in their relationships and lives to maintain attraction and respect from their female partners.
Deep dives
The Absent Father Epidemic
One of the main issues discussed in the podcast episode is the prevalence of absent fathers in many households. The hosts highlight how many men are brought up by their mothers, leading to a lack of masculine role models in their lives. This absence of fathers can have a significant impact on boys' development, as they often do not receive guidance on how to embody traditional masculine traits like assertiveness, discipline, and setting boundaries. The discussion emphasizes the importance of having strong male figures to provide guidance and teach young boys about masculinity.
Women Filling Masculine Roles
The podcast also delves into the dynamics of modern relationships, where men can often abdicate their masculine roles and responsibilities to their female partners. This shift can occur when men lack assertiveness, organization, discipline, and other masculine traits in their own lives. Women may step into these roles, which can lead to a loss of attraction and respect for the men. The discussion highlights the need for men to take ownership of their masculine identity and start showing up as leaders in their relationships, homes, and lives.
The Value of Anger and Masculine Energy
Another key point discussed in the podcast is the suppression of anger in men, influenced by societal norms and fear of being perceived as dangerous or aggressive. The hosts emphasize that anger, when harnessed and controlled, can be a powerful energy for men. They argue that anger is often suppressed in men due to the perception that it is unsafe, resulting in a lack of assertiveness and effective boundaries. The podcast encourages men to embrace and channel their anger in healthy ways, highlighting the importance of witnessing other conscious men use their anger for positive change.
The Role of Male Role Models and Community
The podcast emphasizes the significance of surrounding oneself with male role models and being part of a supportive male community. This community provides opportunities for men to learn from one another, share experiences, and grow together. By observing conscious and self-assured men, individuals can develop a stronger sense of masculinity, embrace their natural masculine traits, and become more integrated and empowered as men. The importance of seeking guidance and support from other men is highlighted as a crucial step in personal growth and building fulfilling relationships.
Ask us a question & we'll answer on the show (click here to msg us)Why can't a woman teach you to be a man?In 2023 there is an epidemic of absent fathers. Either physically, emotionally or in many other ways men can be absent in their childrens lives.So guess who takes up the slack of an absent, mediocre man... Women.Often women who've been let down, wounded, hurt by men.So boys get a blueprint of masculinity, from a woman who's been hurt by a man/men.Listen to this incredible episode and...
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