Abdullah Oduro If You’re a Muslim Man Tired of Arguments Watch This
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Oct 30, 2025 Explore the surprising ways small words can spark big arguments in marriage. Learn three key principles: speak with kindness, stay calm, and be concise to enhance communication. Discover how gentle speech, like the analogy of women as glass vessels, can transform interactions. Understand the emotional reality of women and how men’s calm demeanor stabilizes the home. Get practical phrases for moments of stress to foster reassurance and responsibility. Embrace these principles to build trust and respect in your relationship.
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Prioritize Gentle Speech
- Speak to your wife with deliberate kindness and avoid trying to 'straighten' her emotions.
- Use gentle communication because the Prophet ﷺ taught men to be kind to women and not force change.
Her Emotions Are Her Reality
- Recognize that a woman's emotions are her reality and not merely irrationality.
- Men and women complement one another: men's logic and women's emotional reality both matter in relationships.
Prophetic Example: Drive Slowly
- Abdullah recounts the Prophet ﷺ telling Anjasha to 'drive slowly' and be gentle with women on a journey.
- The Prophet ﷺ likened women to glass vessels to illustrate their fragility and need for gentleness.