Knowledge For Men

How to Be Assertive and Quit Being a Pushover

Apr 18, 2022
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INSIGHT

Pushovers Misunderstood in Society

  • Society conditions men to mistake assertiveness for aggression, creating pathological pushovers.
  • Pushovers suffer in relationships, work, and social dynamics due to suppressed anger and poor boundary setting.
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Evolutionary Signal of Weakness

  • Evolutionary signaling influences how men's behavior is perceived for survival and procreation purposes.
  • Nice guys often signal weakness externally despite internal value, leading to rejection.
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Assertiveness vs Aggression

  • Assertiveness means standing for your needs while respecting others, not aggression.
  • Aggression alienates others and leads to resentment, while assertiveness fosters confidence and respect.
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