The podcast discusses the importance of simple opening messages in online dating, the limitations of relying on AI-generated dating advice, effective questions for online dating conversations, approaching girls and calibrating after the fact, using wealth to attract women while acknowledging the importance of genuine connection, and the significance of knowing how to attract women and have engaging conversations.
When it comes to online dating openers, women are looking for profiles that have great photos, interesting prompts, and easy-to-answer opening questions.
Utilizing wealth can be a valuable asset in dating, but it's important to filter out gold diggers and focus on building genuine connections.
Deep dives
The importance of online dating openers
When it comes to online dating openers, many guys make the mistake of trying to be overly creative. However, the reality is that women on dating apps are often overwhelmed with matches and messages. They are looking for profiles that stand out and have the whole package - great photos, interesting prompts, and easy-to-answer opening questions. While a witty opener might initially get a response, it is everything else in the profile that determines if a woman will continue to engage and potentially meet up.
Using wealth to your advantage in dating
Having wealth can be a valuable asset in dating, although it should be used strategically. On dating apps, mentioning a high-paying occupation or showcasing luxury items like an expensive car or watch can generate interest. However, it is important to be cautious of attracting gold diggers. In social settings, such as clubs or parties, leveraging wealth by getting bottle service or owning a boat can create opportunities to meet more women. It's crucial to filter out genuine connections from those solely interested in your wealth and focus on building a meaningful connection.
Approaching women in groups
When approaching women in groups, it is best to direct your attention to the one you are interested in rather than trying to engage both simultaneously. By focusing on the woman you find attractive, you can generate a more authentic connection. It's important to introduce yourself, ask questions, and build a rapport. If the woman you are interested in is not available or shows disinterest, striking up a conversation with her friend can be an alternative. However, always prioritize clear communication and ensure everyone involved feels comfortable and respected.
Using opportunities to meet women
Utilizing your wealth to create opportunities to meet women can be beneficial. In dating apps, mentioning a high-paying occupation or showcasing luxury items can attract interest. Renting a boat or getting bottle service at clubs can also provide opportunities to meet women in social settings. However, it's essential to stay true to who you are, filter out superficial connections, and focus on building genuine relationships. Remember that attracting quality women goes beyond material possessions, and developing interpersonal skills and genuine connections will be key to finding the right partner.
After lots of trial and error with different dating apps and sending messages to see what girls respond to the most, I've narrowed it down to one type of message, or question that is. I'll show you my favorite openers, and how to come up with your own so you always get responses.