Dana Berkowitz et al. ed., "Male Femininities" (NYU Press, 2023)
Sep 20, 2023
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Dana Berkowitz, author of 'Male Femininities,' explores how men perform femininity and the possibilities that arise when femininity is examined without women. The podcast delves into the origin story of the book, challenges traditional gender norms in advertisements, and discusses the diverse styles and formats of the book. The speakers also share their current projects, including creating space within gay communities and studying young women's experiences with cosmetic enhancements.
Male femininities challenge traditional notions of masculinity and femininity, revealing new possibilities for gender expression.
Performing male femininity intersects with intimacies and social institutions, presenting both challenges and opportunities for change.
Deep dives
Male Feminities: A Nuanced Exploration of Gender Performance
The book 'Male Feminities' published by NYU Press in 2023 offers a nuanced and critical collection of essays that examine the construction and performance of male femininity. The contributions cover a range of topics including drag queens, cosmetic enhancements, trans-paternity, and gender non-conforming childhoods. By exploring both gay and straight men, as well as trans-masculine and gender queer individuals, the book challenges the notion that male femininities are simply imitations of femaleness or a rejection of masculinity. Instead, it reveals the possibilities that emerge when femininity is critically examined without solely associating it with women. The chapters in the book highlight the impact of decoupling femininity from female bodies and how even small disruptions to the normative order can challenge and reaffirm existing sex-gender regimes.
The Complexity of Performing Male Femininity
The book delves into a diverse assortment of perspectives on performing male femininity. It explores the performative aspects of being a drag queen, as well as the less deliberate forms of performing femininity that exist in everyday life. The contributors examine various contexts where male femininity is enacted, such as the experience of being a feminine man in sports, the embodiment of gender non-conforming children, and the performance of feminine straight cisgender men. They challenge traditional notions of performance and performativity, showcasing the complex and multi-faceted nature of male femininity.
The Intersection of Gender, Intimacy, and Male Femininity
The book highlights how male femininity intersects with intimacies, particularly in sexual and romantic relationships. It explores the challenges faced by feminine men within the sexual economy, as femininity is often devalued. The chapters discuss the stigma and marginalization experienced by feminine men in gay communities, where certain sexual acts and roles are deemed less masculine. However, the book also recognizes that life for feminine men is not without joy. It showcases instances of pleasure and celebration, such as the embrace of polyamory, where traditional notions of ownership and jealousy are replaced with joy in others' pleasure.
Male Femininities in Social Institutions: Complexities and Resistance
The book concludes by examining how male femininities intersect with social institutions, particularly family and work. It recognizes that all institutions are gendered and explores the role of intersectionality in shaping the experiences of male femininities within these institutions. The chapters shed light on the ways in which social institutions both enable and constrain the expression of male femininity. They also reveal how different intersecting inequalities, such as social class, race, and sexuality, shape the options and consequences for those embodying male femininities. Furthermore, the book emphasizes that even within these systems, there are opportunities for social change and resistance.
Innovative essays that explore how men perform femininity and what femininity looks like without women
What counts as “male femininity”? Is it simply men behaving in effeminate ways or is it the absence of masculinity? Male Femininities (NYU Press, 2023) presents a nuanced, critical collection of essays that highlight the extent to which male femininities are neither an imitation of femaleness nor an emptying of masculinity. These innovative essays focus on both gay and straight men, and transmasculine and genderqueer people in their construction and performance of femininity, thereby revealing the possibilities that open up when we critically examine femininity without women. Male Femininities asks, What does femininity look like for men?
The contributors—highly regarded scholars and rising stars—cover a range of topics, including drag queens, cosmetic enhancements, trans fertility, and gender-non-conforming childhoods. Male Femininities illuminates what happens when we decouple femininity from female bodies and how even the smallest cracks and fissures in the normative order can disrupt, challenge, and in some cases reaffirm our existing sex-gender regime. This volume pluralizes the concept of male femininities and leads readers through an exploration of how gender, sex, and sexuality are manifested in the United States today.
Isabel Machado is a cultural historian whose work often crosses national and disciplinary boundaries.