

On Narcissism
15 snips Jun 8, 2025
Dive into the depths of Freud's theories on narcissism, contrasting his insights with today's pop-psychology interpretations. Explore the complex relationship between love, ego, and societal pressures, revealing how they challenge modern narratives. Examine the intricate dynamics of desire through cinema, highlighting how self-perception and validation shape identity. Discuss the effects of self-surveillance in a social media-driven world and uncover the distinctions between the ideal ego and ego ideal, all while playfully connecting indie films with deeper themes of narcissism.
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Freud's Positive Take on Narcissism
- Freud sees narcissism as a necessary and positive baseline self-love needed to survive and act in the world.
- This contrasts sharply with today's clinical and cultural view of narcissism as pathological selfishness and lack of empathy.
Distinguishing Ego and Object Libido
- Freud distinguishes ego libido (narcissistic, self-directed) from object libido (desire directed outward).
- He critiques excessive object libido in love for weakening the ego, opposite to contemporary views of narcissism.
Freud on Homosexuality and Desire
- Freud's claim that homosexuality is narcissistic reflects a non-pejorative understanding of sexual desire development.
- He sees bisexual desire as fundamental, rejecting born-this-way notions and emphasizing openness.