The Art of Growth Type 9 Panel Live
Nov 25, 2025
In this engaging discussion, panelists explore the complexities of being a Type Nine, focusing on themes like peacemaking and self-forgetting. They share personal stories about the origins of people-pleasing and the challenges of prioritizing self-needs. The conversation dives into the dynamics of passive anger and procrastination, highlighting how Nines navigate their emotions. Panelists also reflect on the importance of restful downtime and the struggle with feeling insignificant, all while seeking gentle support to express themselves.
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Peacemaking Masks Self-Forgetting
- Nines become peacemakers by repressing their needs to keep harmony with others.
- This creates a pattern of forgetting their own thoughts and feelings while embodying others' views.
The Deflect-And-Flip Communication Habit
- Nines often deflect questions and flip focus back onto others as a 'Jedi power.'
- This keeps them safe socially but hides their inner lack of self-awareness.
Trauma Led To People-Pleasing
- Panel Guest (Guest A) shared being molested at age five and responding by becoming paralyzed and people-pleasing.
- She used pleasing and avoiding conflict to survive long periods living in a dormitory from age six.