No Stupid Questions When Is It OK to Tell a Lie? (Replay from Ep. 66)
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Nov 13, 2022 Can a little white lie actually be beneficial? The discussion delves into the emotional weight of dishonesty, especially in relationships. They explore how gender influences lying and how children develop their understanding of honesty. With intriguing concepts like the Valjean effect and the potential for lie-tracking apps, the psychology of deceit comes to life. The complexity of polygraphs in lie detection adds another layer, making listeners reconsider the fine line between truth and falsehood.
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The Dress Dilemma
- Angela Duckworth recounts a common scenario where honesty clashes with empathy.
- A wife asks her husband's opinion on a dress, creating a dilemma of whether to offer a blunt critique or a kind compliment.
Honest Fashion Feedback
- Stephen Dubner shares his experience of learning to be honest with his wife about fashion choices.
- Despite his honesty, she often overrules his preferences, highlighting the subjective nature of taste.
The Cost of Lying
- Stephen Dubner reflects on his aversion to lying, citing two primary reasons.
- Lying creates emotional discomfort and necessitates keeping track of falsehoods to avoid being caught.