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The Red Letter Disciple

031: Chris Burns Discusses Sexual Addiction, The First Step in Healing From Sexual Brokenness, and Why He Compares Addiction to Riding a Backwards Bike

Feb 28, 2023
59:42

Chris is a recovering addict that now leads a recovery ministry. He is a licensed social worker and sex addiction therapist. Not only will he clarify the difference between sexual brokenness vs. sexual addiction, but Chris shares his own personal story of recovery, how to get help if you need help, and the first step in sexual healing. To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com

Today’s episode is brought to you by Red Letter Living. At its core, Red Letter Living creates resources to challenge all people to be greater disciples of Jesus. If you are a pastor, consider a 40-day challenge to start directly after Easter. Here’s a blog I just wrote called “Stumped with Post-Easter Plans: 5 Reasons to Launch a 40-Day Challenge.” Let’s partner up. Find out more at www.redletterchallenge.com/join.


FYI I will repost the blog from here and upload it end of February: https://redletterchallenge.com/stumped-with-post-easter-plans-5-reasons-to-start-a-40-day-challenge/. That will be the blog I link to in the above.


Resources mentioned in the episode: 

Rewrite Recovery Counseling 

Restoration Nights

Smarter Everyday Video (Backwards Bike)

The Backwards Bike, Discipline, and Recovery by Chris Burns Rewrite Recovery


Key insights from the episode: 


Sex addiction doesn’t have a lot to do with sex. It’s an inability to be intimate, vulnerable, and authentic. - Chris Burns. 


The way you know if something is an issue is if there is shame. - Chris Burns

 

People who would have never had a sex addiction now do because of devices. - Chris Burns


While we have never had so much opportunity to fail in history before, we also have never had so much opportunity for recovery. - Chris Burns


Powerlessness isn’t weakness. - Chris Burns


Jesus never shames because he is always pointing forward, instead of backward. - Zach Zehnder


Addiction is not who you are, it’s what you’ve done. - Chris Burns


Chris Burns’ Challenge: Take one step to prevent brokenness/sexual integrity.


Lead yourself (and your church) to find freedom in forgiveness.


We’d love to introduce you to the 40-Day Forgiving Challenge.


Zach and Chris were talking in the interview about Peter’s story of redemption which is laid out beautifully in our latest 40-day challenge.


We’d love to help you and your church discover what freedom in forgiveness feels like by exploring the powerful forgiveness that Jesus offers to each and every one of us.


The Forgiving Challenge takes you on a life-changing journey to experience the gift of God’s grace so that you can share it with others. It also helps you identify and walk through the five phases leading to freedom. So many are jumping into this 40-day challenge in 2023. Let’s do this!


You can learn more about the challenge here!


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