Tricycle Talks

Everything Is Buddha with Noelle Oxenhandler

Dec 18, 2024
Noelle Oxenhandler, a writer and longtime contributing editor, shares her journey of examining what it means to let go of belongings while contemplating mortality. She discusses the emotional ties we have with objects, like a quirky rubber zebra, and how these can reflect our identities. Inspired by Suzuki Roshi, she delves into balancing control with acceptance of life's messiness. Oxenhandler also explores the notion of object autonomy, leading to deeper connections with our possessions beyond mere ownership.
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ANECDOTE

Pressure To Downsize And A Wildfire Wake-Up

  • Noelle felt pressure to downsize and realized belongings exerted a claim on her that she hadn't noticed before.
  • A friend's wildfire loss made her question the consoling phrase "it's just things."
ANECDOTE

The Zebra And The Moose

  • Noelle describes quirky possessions like a rubber zebra in a sailor suit and a moose in plaid trousers she found in thrift stores.
  • She photographed and even shipped some items for the magazine feature to honor their stories.
ADVICE

Use Giveaway Ceremonies To Release Items

  • Try a giveaway ceremony to let go without devaluing an object by passing it within a circle of givers and receivers.
  • This circulates value and avoids creating debt because everyone both gives and receives.
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