Michael Lavers, from Level Up English, shares his story of trying 16 different jobs in search of something more. From working at a crematorium to a journey of self-discovery in Japan, he emphasizes the power of language learning and living in the present moment.
Trying multiple jobs to find fulfillment and success (see what sticks).
Quitting a stressful job can lead to self-discovery, growth, and new opportunities.
Deep dives
Michael's restless search for a new direction
Michael, a resident of Cornwall, tried 16 different jobs, feeling lost and unfulfilled. He desired something different and more significant. Despite the small-town mindset prevalent among friends and family, Michael craved adventure and exploration. His love for gardening led him to a job at a crematorium, taking care of the gardens. While initially confronting the strangeness of death, he grew accustomed to it, seeing it as a natural part of life. However, the stress, long hours, and deteriorating relationship took a toll on him, leading to a pivotal moment of realization and decision.
The breaking point and a life-changing decision
While working as the cremation technician, Michael received a text from his girlfriend, suggesting a breakup. Overwhelmed by stress and emotions, he found himself physically shaking in front of a coffin. Unable to perform his task, he tearfully approached his boss, expressing the need to quit. Though initially fabricating intentions of a return, he knew he had to leave the crematorium permanently. This shift in his life sparked a sense of relief and control, and he made the impulsive decision to embark on a solo trip to Japan.
From crisis to self-discovery and positive transformation
Although the trip to Japan was not a magical solution, it taught Michael about language learning and overcoming self-limiting beliefs. Inspired by his experience, he started his own teaching business upon returning. Despite the negative and scary aspects of quitting his job, Michael recognizes its positive impact on his life. Working at the crematorium provided him with a deeper appreciation for the transient nature of existence, leading to a greater sense of gratitude and a desire to live more fully in the present moment.
- TO SEE WHAT STICKS: Trying various options to see which ones are successful or well-received. Examples: "The company launched multiple ad campaigns to see what sticks." "I applied to various positions to see what sticks and gets a response."
- TO LET LOOSE: To relax or release control, allowing oneself or others to have fun. Examples: "After a busy week, I like to let loose and go out with friends." "Let's let loose and enjoy our holiday by the beach."
- TO SEE / NOT TO SEE SOMETHING COMING: Anticipating or failing to anticipate an event or situation. Examples: "We saw the storm coming and prepared." "They did not see the market crash coming and suffered significant losses."
- TO HAVE A WORD: Definition: To talk briefly or have a conversation with someone. Examples: "I need to have a word with my partner about our future plans." "Can I have a word with you about something that's been on my mind?"
- TO HAVE SOMETHING LINED UP: To have something planned or arranged, often as a backup or for transitions. Examples: "Before resigning, she made sure to have another job lined up." "It's always wise to have something lined up before making major life changes."