In a captivating conversation, Dr. Devon Price, a social psychologist and author, dives into the interplay of neurodivergence and queerness. They discuss the challenges of masking and societal expectations, offering impactful strategies for building authentic relationships. Dr. Price emphasizes the importance of community for healing and self-discovery, while also addressing sensory needs in intimacy. The dialogue uncovers misconceptions about autism and showcases the fluidity of identity beyond rigid labels, promoting personal exploration and empowerment.
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Queerness and Neurodivergence
Neurodivergence and queerness share similarities, both involve societal pressure to conform.
Both experiences lead to a realization of not fitting in and a journey of self-discovery.
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Masking
Masking is a set of strategies neurodivergent people use to appear neurotypical, involving camouflage and compensation.
Similar to being closeted, masking is often not a choice but a result of societal expectations.
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Unmasking
Find and build communities where you feel accepted and safe to experiment with unmasking.
Unmasking and self-discovery are social experiences, similar to coming out in the queer community.
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In 'Unmasking Autism', Dr. Devon Price explores the lives of Autistic individuals who have spent their lives masking their true selves to fit societal norms. The book delves into the reasons behind this masking, its impact on mental health, and the journey towards embracing one’s authentic identity. Drawing from personal experience, history, social science research, and personal profiles, Price offers a compassionate guide for Autistic people seeking to unmask and for allies looking to support them. The book includes practical exercises such as celebrating special interests, cultivating Autistic relationships, reframing Autistic stereotypes, and rediscovering one’s values. It is a powerful call for acceptance and understanding, making it an essential read for anyone interested in neurodiversity and mental health[2][3][5].
Unmasking for Life: The Autistic Person's Guide to Connecting, Loving, and Living Authentically
Unmasking for Life: The Autistic Person's Guide to Connecting, Loving, and Living Authentically
The Autistic Person's Guide to Connecting, Loving, and Living Authentically
Devon Price
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Today Alayna welcomes Dr. Devon Price, a social psychologist and acclaimed author, to explore the intersections of neurodivergence, queerness, and authentic self-expression. Together they delve into masking, the challenges of navigating relationships as a neurodivergent person, and ways to overcome societal expectations. Dr. Price offers advice on building meaningful connections and embracing your individuality.
This episode answers questions like:
What is masking, and how can we undo this process?
How do sensory needs influence intimacy, and how can they be honored in relationships?
Why is community so vital for self-discovery and healing?
How can neurodivergent people approach dating and connection?
Devon Price is a social psychologist, professor, and the author of several books, including Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity and the forthcoming Unmasking for Life: The Autistic Person's Guide to Connecting, Loving, and Living Authentically, which comes out in March 2025.He writes regularly about neurodiversity, radical mental health, queer sexuality, and culture for free at drdevonprice.substack.com. He lives in Chicago with his chinchilla Dump Truck and his cat Loqi.
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