Women Only Secret Society (NXIVM) PT 2: "Collateral Damaged"
Sep 22, 2021
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Jessica Joan, a fierce ninja warrior and former member of a women-only secret society, shares her gripping journey within NXIVM. She reveals the insidious psychological manipulation techniques employed by the organization, highlighting the use of a deceptive language that twists personal accountability. Jessica discusses the unsettling concept of 'collateral' and reflects on her escape from emotional and physical oppression. Her story sheds light on the complexities of loyalty, manipulation, and the arduous path to reclaiming autonomy.
Manipulative language and the reframing of trauma in emotional workshops severely compromised participants' critical thinking and mental well-being.
The coercion of members to provide personal collateral created a culture of fear and mistrust, complicating their ability to escape the group.
Deep dives
Understanding Manipulative Language
The episode delves into the use of manipulative language within the group being described. New terms were introduced that distorted existing meanings, tricking individuals into rejecting their critical thinking skills. For example, participants were taught to take personal responsibility for their feelings, placing the blame for negative experiences solely on themselves. This dogma shifted the perspective from recognizing victims to promoting a culture where individuals felt guilty for their own emotions.
Dangerous Psychological Practices
The podcast highlights the psychologically harmful practices implemented during the emotional workshops attended by members of the group. Participants were encouraged to confront deep-seated traumas under the guise of healing, but this quickly became part of a manipulative agenda. Notably, emotionally charged discussions sought to reframe experiences of trauma in a way that allowed the group to establish control. These techniques, lacking professional oversight, demonstrated a serious risk to the mental well-being of the participants.
The Pervasiveness of Collateral
Collateral played a crucial role in controlling members and ensuring their compliance within the organization. Individuals were coerced into providing deeply personal and compromising information, which could be weaponized to maintain their silence or loyalty. This practice fostered an environment of mistrust and fear as members worried about the potential release of their collateral. The attachment of collateral to the secret society solidified their commitment, making it difficult for members to leave without severe repercussions.
The Path to Realization and Escape
Ultimately, the journey to self-awareness and resignation faced significant hurdles as individuals grappled with the extent of manipulation they endured. Exposure to troubling directives, such as compromising one’s safety for the leader's desires, jolted some participants into recognizing the abusive nature of the group. A turning point emerged when individuals began secretly documenting collateral to protect themselves and consider escaping the toxic environment. The narrative culminates with bold steps taken by members to sever ties, revealing the complex interplay of indoctrination and the struggle for autonomy.
"It's exclusive," she was told. A women only secret society.
She was a chosen one, after all.
A badass ninja warrior woman, she was ready to set the world on fire.
Finally surrounded by people that shared her same vision, she would do whatever it takes.
Jessica Joan was ready for anything.
Well... almost anything.
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