

102: The Other Side of Cheating— What Ashley Madison Can Teach Us About Modern Relationships with Paul Keable
In this episode of The Pineapple Express: A Guide to Millennial Love, Evolution, and Relationships, I sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, to explore the real reasons people seek connection outside of traditional monogamy.
We talk about:
💬 Why infidelity happens in long-term relationships
🌱 The emotional complexity behind secrecy and unmet needs
❤️🔥 The future of non-traditional relationships in a rapidly evolving world
🔓 How platforms like Ashley Madison are creating space for conversations around autonomy, desire, and honest exploration
This is not an episode about shame or judgment. It’s a conversation about what it means to be human in relationships, especially when the expectations of monogamy don’t match someone’s lived experience.
Whether you're monogamous, non-monogamous, or questioning the rules you've been taught, this episode will leave you thinking deeply about communication, choice, and connection.
📎 Learn more about Paul Keable and his work at Ashley Madison:
https://www.ashleymadison.com
Paul Keable's Authority Magazine Interview
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