How to Find Your “New Normal” with Rheumatoid Arthritis: Jennifer Weaver’s Story

Jenni shares how her symptoms were initially dismissed before she got diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis. She then got her diagnosis and experienced a rare medication side effect: medically induced pustular psoriasis. Through it all, she also balanced being a mom, wife and friend. In this episode Jenni shares how she learned the importance of social-support, self-advocacy, humor and an unashamed embracing of her “new normal.”

Episode at a glance:

• Diagnosis and treatment Saga: After experiencing knee pain, fatigue, and fevers, Jenni is first diagnosed with an “infection in her knee” and then told she needs to “just lose weight; after advocating for herself Jenni gets a second opinion and a preliminary RA diagnosis, then has many complications with treatments including medically induced pustular psoriasis.
• Learning Self-Advocacy: Jenni talks about the importance of finding a doctor who is the right fit for you, listens to your story, and explains their treatment clearly - while avoiding medical gaslighting and weight blame
• The importance of social support: Jenni shares how she lost some friendships, but also found amazing people to keep her going. Jenni started “My Spoonie Sisters” to help others feel less alone.
• Jenni’s Coping Tools: She works to lean hard into the mindset of embracing her reality and not feeling shame about her health.
• Finding a “New Normal:” Be honest with the people in your life - including finding ways to talk about it to your children if you have any. Don’t be afraid to ask for help and be specific! Be open to trying new things and sharing/connecting with others.
• Best Advice for Newly Diagnosed Patients: When things feel out of control - you matter, you’re enough, your life matters; use what you’re going through to help others.
• Favorite Mantra: Don’t forget your spoon - save one for yourself!
• Thriving with Rheumatic Disease: Thriving with rheumatic disease means not giving up! Have hope that you will still live a wonderful life, even if it’s not exactly how you may have once envisioned it.

Medical disclaimer:

All content found on Arthritis Life public channels was created for generalized informational purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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