The Jordan Harbinger Show 1218: Grandson is Feral and Puts In-Laws In Peril | Feedback Friday
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Oct 3, 2025 A listener grapples with a violent grandson living with in-laws who won't evict him, leading to a discussion on the complexities of family boundaries. The hosts provide strategies for compassionate confrontation and safe distance measures. Another listener faces the dilemma of moving for love while considering her kids' stability in sports and school. They also tackle workplace harassment issues, highlighting the importance of documentation and HR advocacy. Finally, they explore finding a 'third way' in decision-making for a balanced life.
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Cycle Of Family Enabling
- Keith's grandparents adopted a troubled teen, Michael, who became violent and abusive into adulthood.
- Michael repeatedly threatened and assaulted family members, culminating in fracturing his grandfather's ribs and hospitalizing him.
Guilt Drives Dangerous Accommodation
- Jordan and Gabe observe that guilt and accommodation often drive families to enable abusive relatives.
- This pattern lets family members avoid pain by repeating multigenerational dynamics instead of drawing safety boundaries.
Have A Compassionate But Firm Conversation
- Approach Kate and David with patient, non-judgmental questions that probe why they can't set boundaries with Michael.
- Offer help to explore their feelings and warn them you'll protect your family if they refuse to change.
