Love and Life with Dr. Karin and Pastor Elliott Q&A: How to Date Smarter, Not Harder! Ep. 70
Nov 18, 2019
42:38
It’s definitely complicated in today’s dating scene—can we learn to date smarter, not harder? Of course, we can! In this Q&A episode, I respond to 3 questions from listeners striving to navigate the disorienting and often demoralizing dating landscape:
1. “Danielle” wants to know if she should go on a second date if she’s not feeling sparks during the first date.
2. “Sarah” wonders if after 5 ½ years of dating “Chris” on and off, should she tell him her true feelings? And furthermore, is a legitimate, committed relationship with him even possible after so much back and forth?
3. “Lily” and her ex-boyfriend, “John,” have remained friends for years. He visits (from overseas) once or twice a year and financially supports her and her children (although they aren’t his). John is in love with Lily and though Lily loves him as a friend and appreciates his years of commitment to her and her kids, she doesn’t have romantic feelings for him. Then again, he’s such a good guy, she wishes she could fall for him and wonders if there’s a psychological block that keeps her from cultivating romantic feelings with a man who loves her so much as is deeply committed to her.
I give in-depth responses to these in-depth questions—and Dan provides a male perspective for question 2! Join us to learn how to date smarter, not harder!
Music
Track Name: 'Good Day'
Music By: Low Frequency Music @ https://soundcloud.com/user-551516820
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Track Name: "Time Flies"
Music By: "KaizanBlu"
Licence: Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 4.0 International (CC BY-SA 4.0)
Track Name: 'Opportunity'
Music By: Low Frequency Music @ https://soundcloud.com/user-551516820
License for commercial use: Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported "Share Alike" (CC BY-SA 3.0) License.
1. “Danielle” wants to know if she should go on a second date if she’s not feeling sparks during the first date.
2. “Sarah” wonders if after 5 ½ years of dating “Chris” on and off, should she tell him her true feelings? And furthermore, is a legitimate, committed relationship with him even possible after so much back and forth?
3. “Lily” and her ex-boyfriend, “John,” have remained friends for years. He visits (from overseas) once or twice a year and financially supports her and her children (although they aren’t his). John is in love with Lily and though Lily loves him as a friend and appreciates his years of commitment to her and her kids, she doesn’t have romantic feelings for him. Then again, he’s such a good guy, she wishes she could fall for him and wonders if there’s a psychological block that keeps her from cultivating romantic feelings with a man who loves her so much as is deeply committed to her.
I give in-depth responses to these in-depth questions—and Dan provides a male perspective for question 2! Join us to learn how to date smarter, not harder!
Music
Track Name: 'Good Day'
Music By: Low Frequency Music @ https://soundcloud.com/user-551516820
License for commercial use: Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported "Share Alike" (CC BY-SA 3.0) License.
Track Name: "Time Flies"
Music By: "KaizanBlu"
Licence: Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 4.0 International (CC BY-SA 4.0)
Track Name: 'Opportunity'
Music By: Low Frequency Music @ https://soundcloud.com/user-551516820
License for commercial use: Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported "Share Alike" (CC BY-SA 3.0) License.