452: Fessing Up to Security Clearance Sex Lies | Feedback Friday
Dec 25, 2020
A listener grapples with the implications of revealing a past affair with their boss that could affect his security clearance. The hosts discuss how to approach this sensitive situation without appearing vindictive. They also delve into the complexities of grief after the sudden loss of a loved one, encouraging open conversations about mental health. Listeners are reminded of the importance of relationships and personal growth, especially during tough times, emphasizing the joy found in generosity and nurturing connections.
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2020 Reflection
Jordan Harbinger reflects on 2020, a year of both devastation and inspiration.
He shares personal milestones like interviewing prominent figures and taking fans to a maximum-security prison.
volunteer_activism ADVICE
Security Clearance Dilemma
A listener asks about disclosing a past affair to a security clearance agency.
She's worried about potential revenge from her former lover, who is now her manager.
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Disclosing Affairs & Security Clearances
Jordan and Gabriel advise against disclosing the affair unless explicitly asked about romantic relationships with colleagues.
They emphasize that security clearances focus on vulnerabilities to blackmail, not personal morality.
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You and your direct boss had a secret affair, and he asked you not to disclose it to your company's vetting agency for fear of losing his security clearance. Now it's years later and you want to come clean to the agency, but how can you do so without it coming off as petty revenge? We'll tackle this and more here on the last Feedback Friday of 2020!
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2020's been a wild ride. Are we buckled up for 2021?
You and your direct boss had a secret affair, and he asked you not to disclose it to your company's vetting agency for fear of losing his security clearance. Now it's years later and you want to come clean to the agency, but how can you do so without it coming off as petty revenge?
When your uncle passed away suddenly, you felt remorse that you never tried to talk to him about the signs of depression he was showing. Now you don't want to make the same mistake with his son, who's clearly struggling with similar issues. But where do you even begin?
You and your partner of five years recently split up after talking about how there isn't a path forward for you because opportunities forced you into a long-distance relationship -- even though you are still in love and so compatible otherwise. It feels like a wrong decision; how can you be sure you've explored every option?
How might someone grasping at gratitude cultivate a more giving mindset?
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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