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Developmental Abandonment Wound

Jan 5, 2026
In this engaging conversation, George Gheorghe shares his poignant journey with developmental abandonment wounds. He recounts early childhood separation from his mother, connecting it to lifelong feelings of helplessness. The discussion explores the profound impact of parental absence on his bond with life, revealing how these wounds manifest as bodily sensations rather than thoughts. Through guided exercises, George is encouraged to connect with the tender, helpless part of himself, fostering openness and love while acknowledging shared pain with others in the group.
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INSIGHT

Primary Bond Fracture Shapes Lifelong Feeling

  • Early separation from a primary caregiver creates a deep fracture in the bond with life and others.
  • George Gheorghe describes this as a core developmental wound that shapes lifelong feelings of abandonment and helplessness.
ANECDOTE

Preverbal Separation That Left A Mark

  • George Gheorghe recounts being separated from his mother around age one when his parents split.
  • He remembers a lasting restlessness, sorrow, and sense of abandonment though the events are pre-verbal.
ADVICE

Use Circling Groups For Deep Processing

  • Attend circling or group-facing events to process deep developmental wounds with others.
  • Unknown Speaker recommends finding facilitators or retreats, especially if you're in the U.S.
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