Undaunted.Life: A Man's Podcast by Kyle Thompson JOBY MARTIN | Stand Firm and Act Like Men (Ep. 823)
Oct 7, 2025
Joby Martin, Pastor of Church of 1122 and author of "Stand Firm and Act Like Men," dives into the crisis of biblical manhood. He shares a gripping near-death canoe story as a metaphor for guidance in men's lives. The importance of mentorship and rites of passage is emphasized, along with practical ways to engage boys in male communities. Joby critiques the ineffectiveness of modern church culture and highlights the core issues of passivity among men, urging a return to responsibility and vigilance.
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Canoe Near-Death Metaphor
- Joby nearly drowned canoeing as a teenager and lost all their gear but retrieved it when a passing boater gathered it up.
- He uses the episode as a metaphor: when your canoe tips, older men can help you realign with biblical manhood.
Manhood Is Bestowed Over Time
- Manhood is bestowed by older men, not self-declared or a single rite of passage.
- Raising boys into men requires repeated rites, community, and generational investment over years.
Build Recurring Father‑Son Traditions
- Start father-son traditions in middle school and repeat them annually with other godly men participating.
- Attach meaningful responsibilities or gifts as milestones to mark progression into manhood.
