

Demented Little Tango with Vinson Cunningham
May 28, 2025
Vinson Cunningham, a staff writer at The New Yorker, brings his sharp wit to explore the outrageous world of private school fundraising. He shares hilarious stories of parental competition that spirals out of control, revealing the absurdities of wealth and privilege. The discussion dives into the life of Ellen, a mother navigating frenemies and high-stakes school events, all while dealing with the fallout of her daughter's choices. From Halloween pranks to the ethics of charity, the conversation is a delightful mix of humor and social commentary.
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Daniel's Private School Rampage
- A rich private school student named Daniel went on a dramatic rampage after expulsion, yelling obscenities and jumping on tables in the cafeteria.
- The legend grew that he also crashed a cab onto school grounds, making his exit unforgettable and rebellious.
Hide Your Frustrations From Kids
- If you dislike someone your child admires, never show hatred or jealousy in front of your child.
- Keeping a composed exterior prevents pushing your child closer to that person out of rebellion or curiosity.
Private School Fundraiser Shenanigans
- Briarwood Academy's fundraising silent auction allowed parents to leverage their connections to offer extravagant items, bending rules about student involvement.
- Items included a private dinner with a Broadway star and lifetime fitness memberships, escalating competitive cheating disguised as contributions.