Father Cooper discusses the pressures of a 'timeline' and buying a house before marriage. She opens up about difficult family situations and taking back the holidays. Alex shares tips on keeping passion alive in a long-term relationship and her favorite new sex position. She also talks about using a vibrator in the bedroom and spicing up a long-term relationship.
Disrupting routine and creating new experiences can help maintain excitement in a long-term relationship.
Open communication about incorporating a vibrator can enhance sexual pleasure and satisfaction for both partners.
Prioritizing personal happiness over societal expectations leads to a more fulfilling and authentic life.
Deep dives
Maintaining excitement in a long-term relationship
In a long-term relationship, it can be challenging to maintain the same level of excitement as in the early stages. Creating new experiences and disrupting routine can help keep the spark alive. Going on weekend getaways or engaging in different activities outside of the usual routine can help break the monotony and bring back the excitement.
Incorporating a vibrator into sexual experiences
Using a vibrator during sex can enhance pleasure and increase the likelihood of orgasm. Communicating openly with your partner about the reasons for wanting to incorporate a vibrator, such as enhancing orgasm frequency and overall sexual satisfaction, can help address any insecurities and create a more fulfilling sexual experience for both partners.
Finding fulfillment on your own timeline
Society often imposes arbitrary timelines for milestones such as marriage, buying a house, or having children. However, it is essential to prioritize personal happiness and fulfillment over societal expectations. Each individual's journey is unique, and focusing on what makes you happy and aligns with your desires, rather than conforming to external pressures, can lead to a more authentic and fulfilling life.
Creating Boundaries and Prioritizing Mental Health
The podcast highlights the importance of creating boundaries and prioritizing mental health during the holidays and family gatherings. The host shares a personal experience of removing herself from toxic family situations, leading to a happier and healthier Thanksgiving. She encourages listeners to prioritize their own well-being and not to feel obligated to participate in gatherings that negatively impact their mental health.
Spicing Up a Relationship and Maintaining Desire
The episode also offers tips on spicing up and maintaining desire in a long-term relationship. The host emphasizes the importance of communication, expressing desires, and being intentional about reigniting the initial attraction to your partner. She shares advice on creating excitement, initiating sex, and making efforts to show care and desire for your partner outside the bedroom. The episode concludes with a reminder to be mindful and to take accountability for maintaining the connection and passion in a relationship.
This week Call Her Daddy is bringing you a SOLO episode. Father Cooper finally moved into her new home she bought with her boyfriend and this has raised some serious concerns. Buying a house before marriage?! She discusses the pressures of a “timeline” and why this concept is absolute bullshit. Alex opens up about difficult family situations she’s had to overcome and what she is doing this year to take back the holidays. Has your relationship veered more towards feeling like roommates rather than lovers? You don’t have to settle for this - Alex breaks down what she believes it takes to keep passion alive in a long term relationship. Stick around for the sex - Father Cooper details her favorite new sex position and explains exactly what to say if your partner refuses to use a vibrator in the bedroom.
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