991 - Brian on Being Bisexual, Swinging, Working in the Adult Entertainment World and More

Dec 18, 2024

Brian dives into his adventures in non-monogamy and bisexuality, revealing the complexities of his identity and experiences in the adult entertainment industry. He shares how he discovered his attraction to men later in life and discusses the challenges he faced within the swinger community. From navigating the stigma surrounding bisexuality to recounting his first bisexual swinger party in Vegas, Brian emphasizes the importance of communication and authenticity in relationships. He also highlights the dynamics of power and submission in intimate connections.

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ANECDOTE

Brian's Adult Entertainment Career

Brian worked at the Gold Club, a prominent gentleman's club in Atlanta, during college and after a brief stint as a nutritionist.
His experience and family background in the hospitality industry led him to become an executive, building 27 clubs over 27 years.

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Non-Monogamy and Work

Brian was non-monogamous for most of his life, largely due to his involvement in the adult entertainment industry.
His previous relationships lacked intentionality, with work always taking precedence.

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Life Change and Relationships

Brian made a significant life change by moving to Montana and taking a pay cut to escape the adult entertainment world.
He believes this change was necessary for personal growth and to value relationships.

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Brian called in to talk all about swinging, finding out he was bi, working in the adult entertainment biz and a lot more. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he grew up and wound up working in the adult industry, the huge adult entertainment gentleman’s club he worked at and what he did there, how and why he got out of the biz and moved to a small town and how he met his current partner, how and why he was always non- monogamous, how his past open relationships were then the one he is in now, how he came to realize he was into guys so much later in life, how his girl went out and found his first guy, what went down at his forte hook up and how he felt afterwards, how he has become a switch over time, the stigma surrounding guy on guy action and how the swinger world is guilty of it too, how he’s treated because he’s bisexual in the swinger world, how he gets hit up by many married guys who are hiding it, their first bisexual swinger party in Vegas that they attended and what went down, why he prefers to play with gay men or men who are out and proud, howhe loves performing oral on both men and women, how he is very much an alpha guy and into guys at same time, how important it is to communicate with y0ur partner about what they might be into, how he helps guys come out as bi plus a whole lot more

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