Charting Toward Intimacy What Do We Need to Figure Out to Make Sex Amazing? | Ep. 235
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Aug 25, 2025 Kathleen Chavonis joins the conversation, bringing her rich insights on intimacy and communication. She emphasizes key discussions couples should have to enhance their sexual relationships, especially newlyweds. The dialogue explores the intricacies of arousal, sexual initiation, and the importance of understanding personal preferences. Listeners learn about navigating intimacy through cycle awareness, effective communication strategies, and the art of humor in overcoming awkward moments. Practical tips for enhancing intimacy are also shared, making this a must-listen for couples seeking deeper connections.
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Talk About Arousal And Desire
- Do explicitly discuss arousal: what triggers and what shuts down desire for each partner.
- Write observations down and revisit them as you learn from experience.
Make Initiation Preferences Explicit
- Explicitly decide how you prefer to be approached and which cues feel pressuring.
- Revisit initiation preferences regularly to avoid silent resentment.
Experiment And Log Touch Preferences
- Try different kinds of touch and note what soothes, excites, or irritates you.
- Use a journal to track what worked and ask your partner to stop touches you disliked.