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CLEANING UP YOUR MENTAL MESS with Dr. Caroline Leaf

Signs you are too hard on yourself

Jun 10, 2024
Dr. Caroline Leaf discusses the negative impacts of being hard on yourself, provides tips on managing self-pressure, and shares 13 signs of being overly critical. She emphasizes reframing negative thoughts for a healthier mindset.
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Quick takeaways

  • Recognize the difference between perfectionism and high achievement to manage self-pressure effectively.
  • Combat emotional exhaustion by taking breaks, engaging in thinker moments, and adding fun activities to your routine.

Deep dives

Recognizing Signs of Pressure on Yourself: Focusing on Achievements

Recognizing signs of pressure on yourself involves distinguishing between perfectionism and high achievement. Perfectionism involves fixating on mistakes and feeling anxious if things are not flawless, leading to a constant feeling of pressure. On the other hand, high achievement focuses on learning from mistakes, acknowledging achievements, and making proactive plans for improvement. Reconceptualizing perfectionism into high achievement involves shifting the perspective to embrace mistakes as learning opportunities and maintaining a positive ratio between acknowledging mistakes and accomplishments.

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