Larry Hagner: Empowering Men to Achieve Healthy Marriages, Emotional Connections, and Financial Literacy for Their Families

Do you struggle to connect with your partner and truly understand their needs? Many men find themselves trying to "fix" problems instead of truly listening and validating their partner's emotions. This can lead to frustration, disconnection, and the breakdown of the relationship. Relationships require a lot of effort and dedication. They can be challenging to maintain because they involve navigating different needs and emotions.

Larry Hagner is a relationship expert on a mission to transform the way men approach marriage and fatherhood. As the founder of The Dad Edge, he helps husbands and fathers navigate the complexities of intimate relationships and raise the next generation of leaders. Today, Larry shares his expertise on building and maintaining healthy marriages and families. Join in as young leaders pose inquiries about life, personal development, and beyond!

Quotes:

• “I prioritize my marriage over parenting. I know some people hear that and think, 'What the hell?' To me, it's not strange at all.’” – Larry Hagner
• “Emotions are neither bad nor good. They just are.” – Larry Hagner
• “I need to show these young men what it looks like to love a woman: how she's treated, how I love her, how I'm affectionate with her, how I communicate with her, and how I handle conflict resolution.” – Larry Hagner
• “Education is about who gets to transfer their way of life to your kids.” – Matt Beaudreau

Takeaways:

• Prioritize your marriage over parenting - make your relationship with your spouse the foundation for a healthy family.
• Validate your partner's emotions, don't try to immediately fix the problem. Use phrases like "That sounds really hard" to create a safe space for them to open up.
• Teach your children what a healthy, loving relationship looks like through your own marriage. Be intentional about modeling respect, affection, and conflict resolution.
• Regularly check in with your partner and ask if they need you to listen and validate their feelings, or if they want you to help problem-solve. Adjust your approach based on their needs in the moment.
• Implement financial literacy lessons with your kids, even at a young age. Sit down weekly to discuss budgeting, saving, and the value of money - equipping them with crucial life skills.

Conclusion:

Prioritizing your marital relationship, developing emotional intelligence, and teaching valuable life skills to children are essential for a healthy family dynamic. These efforts strengthen bonds, promote understanding, and prepare children for success. Together, they create a foundation for lasting relationships and personal growth within the family.