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Mel Robbins chats with Jay Shetty about the High 5 habit and how it can help you come to terms with your real self. How you start your day sets the tone for the rest of your day and immensely affects your confidence and productivity. And seeing that person looking at you in the mirror, your other self, helps you wipe away the dust that’s blocking you from loving your true self.

Mel began her career as a criminal defense attorney in NYC for Legal Aid in 1994, spent 5 years at CNN as a legal analyst, 5 number one audiobooks released on Audible, and 1 Gracie Award: America’s Outstanding News Talk Show Host. Her book, The High 5 Habit, explains the one proven habit that gives you the confidence to transform your life.

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What We Discuss with Mel:

00:00 Intro
02:38 Think Like A Monk: Is it dust or is it me?
04:46 The High 5 Habit
08:38 How Covid brought many lives on a standstill
13:26 The excitement of seeing yourself for the first time
15:46 How to get into the High 5 habit
22:50 Gestures that are symbols of trust and partnership
26:49 Your mood in the morning impacts your confidence and productivity
29:31 The bouncer in your brain
34:00 How to be kind to yourself
40:43 The research on the snooze button
47:16 Outsourcing love and validation to outside things
53:28 It’s only when you love yourself that you can let others love you
57:14 It’s not your partner’s job to make you happy
01:00:34 Leave room for each other to grow
01:04:22 Jealousy is not hatred, it’s desire
01:09:56 Your brain is designed to protect you and change requires risks
01:13:40 Mel on Fast Five

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Monday, May 5, 2025