Post Reports How AI is changing dating
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Jul 10, 2025 
Tatum Hunter, a tech reporter at The Washington Post, explores the evolving world of dating apps and the influence of AI in modern romance. She discusses how AI tools can aid shy users in presenting themselves but also raises concerns about authenticity. The conversation examines the complexities of online interactions, the industry's push for AI innovations, and the emotional rollercoaster of seeking genuine connections amidst technology's limitations. Hunter gives a balanced view of the excitement and apprehension surrounding love in the age of AI.
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Richard's Suspicious AI Date
- Richard met a woman on a dating app who sent unusually long, detailed messages.
- In person, she was quiet, making him suspect she used AI to craft her texts.
How Dating Apps Work
- Dating apps like Hinge and Tinder cater to varying relationship goals and operate mainly by swiping.
- Building rapport through messages to reach an in-person date is complex and full of potential missteps.
AI's Double-Edged Role in Dating
- AI tools help users compose messages or coach them on dating app interactions.
- AI feedback can reflect internet biases and sometimes feel disconnected from genuine personality.