Two Weeks Away: Wrestling With Toxic Hope and Expectation

Apr 17, 2025

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🌟 This episode dives deep as Kevin Tumlinson takes you behind the scenes on what it means to face “toxic hope”—when you’re waiting on that big opportunity that never quite arrives—and the emotional toll it can take. From pandemic-triggered anxiety to the challenges of creative burnout, Kevin shares his personal struggles, revelations, and how he reframed hope as a powerful force (not a toxic one). Tune in for honest talk about mental health, storytelling, and how to keep your creative spark alive when life gets overwhelming.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

* What “toxic hope” really means—and why the term might be misleading

* Enduring deferred dreams, creative frustration, and the quest to stay motivated

* How the pandemic and world events triggered a spiral into burnout and depression

* Reflections on powerful storytelling (and what writers can learn from This Is Us)

* Tips for authentic connection in writing and podcasting

* The value of hope—even when things feel impossible

* Updates on Kevin’s latest writing projects with J.D. Barker

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⏱️ Key Topics & Timestamps:

* [00:00:00] – Exhausting weeks & podcast marathon recap

* [00:01:13] – Author Anchor plug & VA discovery call

* [00:03:17] – The pain of deferred hopes & “toxic hope” defined

* [00:07:12] – Hope and anxiety in today’s world

* [00:08:26] – Storytelling lessons from This Is Us

* [00:10:39] – Pandemic triggers, burnout, and lost hope

* [00:13:47] – Dealing with depression & creative paralysis

* [00:17:03] – Why podcasting and writing matter now more than ever

* [00:19:46] – Hope, stress, and late-night writing anxiety

* [00:22:46] – Updates on writing, Substack, and authentic connection

* [00:25:02] – Spontaneity vs. over-preparation in creative work

* [00:28:54] – Closing encouragement: why hope matters

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Hope isn’t toxic—sometimes, it’s just the spark you need.

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