Lizzie Post, Emily Post's great-great-granddaughter, discusses wedding guest etiquette, including RSVP importance, off-registry gifts, and wearing all white faux pas. The podcast covers gift-giving customs, wedding dress codes, and seating etiquette tips for weddings, offering valuable insights on home maintenance as an adult.
RSVP promptly to wedding invitations to show politeness and aid event planning.
Decipher plus one invitations and adhere to specified guest list to avoid assumptions and missteps.
Deep dives
RSVP Etiquette: Responding in a Timely Manner
Responding to wedding invitations promptly is crucial. Etiquette expert Lizzie Post emphasizes that RSVPs are a sign of politeness towards the host and help them plan effectively. Guests should adhere to RSVP deadlines and avoid leaving hosts guessing about their attendance, ensuring clarity for event planning and consideration for the couple.
Plus One Protocol: Understanding Invitation Clues
Deciphering plus one invitations is key to wedding guest etiquette. Lizzie Post explains that indications of a plus one are typically found in the invitation's inner envelope. Guests without a plus one should not assume its availability and should adhere to the specified guest list. Clear communication of guest details on RSVP cards, including dietary restrictions, is essential.
Dress Code Dilemmas: Navigating Wedding Attire
Decoding wedding dress codes such as black tie requires attention to detail. Lizzie Post highlights the specifics of black tie attire, suggesting appropriate formal wear for both men and women. Clarifications on dress codes like black tie optional and festive attire help guests make informed choices. Avoiding wardrobe faux pas, such as wearing all white outfits, ensures respectful attire selection.
Gift Giving Guidelines: Budgeting and Registry Etiquette
Choosing wedding gifts involves thoughtful consideration of budget and registry preferences. Guests should prioritize what they can afford and consider the couple's wishes from their registry. Lizzie Post emphasizes the importance of sending gifts even if unable to attend, with alternatives like engravable picture frames serving as meaningful presents. Flexibility in gift options and respectful communication with the couple enhance the gifting experience.
Wedding season is officially upon us – which means it’s time to struggle with overwhelming gift registries and confusing dress codes (what the hell is “cocktail semi-casual??”). To help us sort through all of the madness, we’re chatting with Lizzie Post, author of “Emily Post’s Etiquette - the Centennial Edition” and co-host of the podcast “Awesome Etiquette” (also Emily Post’s great-great-grandaughter!). Learn about the importance of RSVP cards, whether or not it’s okay to buy a gift off-registry, and why wearing all white to a wedding as a guest is the ultimate faux pas.