The Jordan Harbinger Show 1178: Connor Beaton | How Society Engineered a Generation of Lonely Men
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Jul 3, 2025 
Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks and men's mental health advocate, dives into the alarming loneliness epidemic affecting men today. He reveals that 15% of men report having no close friends, a drastic rise since 1990. Discussing the impact of fatherlessness, Beaton highlights its correlation with youth behavioral issues. He also addresses the detrimental effects of porn addiction on intimacy, while advocating for men to prioritize real friendships. With humor and insight, he emphasizes the importance of community in combating isolation.
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Collapse of Male Spaces Harms Men
- Male-oriented spaces like Boy Scouts have collapsed, leaving young men without mentorship or models for masculinity.
- This vacuum contributes to loneliness and lack of social skills in young men.
Male Loneliness Epidemic Statistics
- 15% of men report having no close friends, up from 3% in 1990, signaling a dramatic rise in male loneliness.
- Young men are more affected, with nearly 28% aged 18-24 reporting no close friends.
Take Social Risks Regularly
- Men should take social risks regularly, like joining teams or starting conversations, to build friendships.
- Spending two nights per week with male friends is optimal for mental health.