Strictly Anonymous Confessions

1315 - Kenya has Two Husbands and a PHd in Polyamory

Dec 24, 2025
Kenya K Stevens is a trailblazing polyamory educator and CEO of Progressive Love Academy, boasting two husbands and a Ph.D. in the art of open relationships. She shares her journey into polyamory, revealing how candid conversations led to the decision for an egalitarian open marriage. Kenya discusses her first experiences with outside partners and the emotional hurdles faced along the way. With a strong belief that 'rules are for fools,' she emphasizes the importance of self-defined protocols to foster trust and communication, all while advocating for divorce-proof marriages.
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ANECDOTE

Unexpected Sexual Awakening

  • Kenya K Stevens describes a spontaneous orgasm after hugging a man while pregnant, which triggered recurring sexual dreams.
  • She told her husband and felt shamed by their counselors who insisted monogamy must be maintained.
ANECDOTE

Meeting Partner Eases Jealousy

  • After twelve years of marriage Kathy's husband confessed attraction to a coworker and Kenya asked to meet her.
  • Meeting the woman revealed a different energetic type which felt less threatening but still provoked jealousy.
INSIGHT

Desire Is Not Gendered

  • Kenya argues women can have equal or greater sexual desire than men and cultural narratives distort that truth.
  • She points to biological and social evidence to challenge the assumption that only men want variety.
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