Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2722: Living Together Before Marriage by Dr. Diana Kirschner of Love In 90 Days on Commitment and Dating Advice
Sep 8, 2025
Dr. Diana Kirschner dives into the trend of cohabitation before marriage, revealing surprising statistics about break-up and divorce rates. She discusses the emotional toll of living together, particularly for women, emphasizing the need for commitment and open communication. The journey of a couple navigating these challenges illustrates the importance of working through differences. Quizzes and research add depth to the conversation, sparking reflection on the realities of modern relationships.
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Cohabitation Is Now Widespread
- Cohabitation has become more common than marriage for some demographics and often replaces traditional steps toward wedlock.
- About 53% of first marriages now follow living together, signaling a major cultural shift.
Shelley's Quick Move In
- Shelley found Jared on Facebook and moved into his loft with little planning or discussion.
- Their casual move-in illustrated how couples often slip into cohabitation without clear commitment.
Cohabitation Links To Higher Breakup Rates
- Studies show premarital cohabitation correlates with higher divorce and breakup rates compared with those who didn't cohabit.
- The breakup rate for cohabiting couples is about 50%, slightly above the 41% divorce rate.
