Rev Left Radio On Fatherhood: Parenting and Marriage in an Era of Uncertainty
Oct 21, 2025
Nick Hayes, a filmmaker and employee at Means TV, dives into the challenges of fatherhood and masculinity as he anticipates his second child. Joined by JT, creator of the Second Thought YouTube channel, they explore the emotional aspects of parenting and the importance of healthy masculinity. They discuss the impact of upbringing on men's emotions, the dangers of reactionary masculinity, and the value of diverse adult relationships for children. The conversation also touches on teaching values and navigating the complexities of raising kids in today's uncertain world.
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Boys Start Unboxed, Then Get Boxed
- Boys arrive unboxed: early childhood holds radical freedom before gender roles firm up.
- Parents face the task of protecting that openness while preparing kids for social pressures.
Overperformed Masculinity Masks Insecurity
- Reactionary masculinity overperforms strength to cover deep insecurity.
- That performance never satisfies because it defers fulfillment to external measures.
Economic Strain Fuels Masculine Crisis
- Capitalism amplifies provider pressure and fuels male self-loathing when men can't meet rising financial expectations.
- That economic strain channels men toward nihilistic or reactionary online subcultures.
