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The Thais Gibson Podcast

Fearful Avoidant Attachment Will Feel These 3 Things After An Argument

Mar 18, 2024
Exploring the emotional journey of fearful avoidant individuals post-argument, diving into feelings of anger, helplessness, and the yearning for understanding. Emphasizing the importance of validation, transparency, and communication in conflict resolution for fearful avoidants.
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Quick takeaways

  • Fearful avoidants react with anger in arguments due to underlying hurt and helplessness.
  • After an argument, fearful avoidants may seek reassurance or withdraw, needing validation and empathy to feel understood.

Deep dives

The Three Stages of a Fearful Avoidant in an Argument

Fearful avoidants go through three major stages in an argument: initial feelings of anger and frustration, followed by a need for space and time to process their hurt and eventually transitioning to an internal battle between their anxious and avoidant sides. During the first stage, the fearful avoidant reacts with anger due to underlying feelings of hurt and helplessness. They require time and space to process their emotions after the argument to move towards resolving the conflict.

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