The Look & Sound of Leadership Conquering People Pleasing
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Mar 7, 2024 A leader seeks tools to stop people-pleasing tendencies. Explore boundaries, conflict conversations, and setting boundaries. Learn to prioritize self-interest over constant approval-seeking behavior.
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Listen to Your Inner Voice
- To conquer people-pleasing, acknowledge the inner voice that knows your true desires.
- Listen to this voice, even if it feels selfish, to identify your wants.
Insecurity vs. Low Self-Esteem
- Insecurity is hoping to be liked, not feeling unworthy.
- People-pleasing stems from this desire for external validation.
Roots of People-Pleasing
- Noah's people-pleasing tendencies originated from a childhood need to appease his autistic father.
- This behavior, while helpful then, now frustrates him in adult interactions.