The Jordan Harbinger Show

246: Wendy Behary | Disarming the Narcissist

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Sep 3, 2019
Wendy Behary, an expert on narcissism with over 20 years of experience and author of Disarming the Narcissist, sheds light on the distinctions between self-absorption and clinical narcissism. She discusses the alarming rise of narcissism in the U.S. and its societal impacts, including gender differences in expression. Wendy explores how certain narcissistic traits can be advantageous in fields like leadership while also revealing red flags for recognizing true narcissists. Listeners gain insights into managing relationships with narcissists and maintaining their own self-worth.
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Narcissism vs. Self-Absorption

  • The term "narcissist" is overused, applied to everyday behaviors like posting selfies.
  • True narcissism is a clinical diagnosis with specific criteria, distinct from self-absorption.
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Clinical Narcissism Characteristics

  • Clinical narcissism involves a lack of empathy, remorse, and accountability.
  • Narcissists often live in a fantasy world, demanding special treatment and feeling entitled.
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Rise of Narcissism?

  • Increased awareness and access to instant gratification contribute to narcissistic behavior.
  • Therapists sometimes overdiagnose narcissism as a convenient explanation for difficult clients.
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