Ol' College Try

College Rejections: What to Do If Your Child Doesn’t Get Into Their Dream School

Dec 18, 2025
As college acceptance letters roll in, emotions are running high for families. Experts break down the differences between Early Decision, Early Action, and what to do when faced with rejections or deferrals. They stress the importance of a supportive mindset for students and parents alike. Personal stories reveal how setbacks can lead to unexpected opportunities. Ultimately, the message is clear: where you go to college doesn't define who you become, and resilience is key during this emotional journey.
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ADVICE

Act Quickly On ED Acceptances

  • If you get an Early Decision acceptance, review the financial aid award letter immediately.
  • Appeal promptly when the package looks off or you expect more support.
ADVICE

Centralize And Decode Award Letters

  • Upload award letters to MyCAP (or a central place) to decode confusing offers.
  • Evaluate fairness and appeal when the offer seems weaker than expected.
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Be Mindful When Sharing Acceptances Online

  • Be cautious with celebratory social media posts because classmates may be hurting from denials.
  • Protect others' feelings while still celebrating your student's success privately.
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