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The Mating Grounds Podcast

How Do I Go From Hookups To Happy Relationships?

Aug 20, 2014
Tucker Max, the former player turned happily in a relationship, shares his journey of transitioning from hookups to a happy, long-term relationship. He gives practical advice on changing dating habits, finding places/events to meet high-quality partners, and the challenges of reputation. The podcast also provides guidance on trying online dating, adjusting to different types of women, and pursuing genuine connections.
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Quick takeaways

  • To meet new kinds of women, you need to change the places and channels you use to meet them.
  • Transitioning from casual flings to a long-term relationship requires fully committing to your desired relationship goals and refraining from casual encounters.

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Changing Actions and Reputation to Fit Relationship Goals

A 31-year-old small business owner seeks advice on transitioning from casual flings to a long-term relationship. The host shares his personal experience and offers insights. He emphasizes the need to change the places and channels one uses to meet women. By creating an avatar that represents the desired partner, one can identify the places and activities that attract similar individuals. The host used this approach to meet women who were emotionally mature and achievers in their lives. He advises the questioner to assess what he truly wants and to avoid leading women on if he is not sincerely interested in a relationship.

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