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Conversation with Gena Gorlin -- Defining a Life of Genuine Ambition | Yaron Brook Show
Defining a Life of Genuine Ambition: Why Self-Trust, Not Hustle or Status, Separates the Builders from the Burnouts
What does real ambition look like—when it’s not driven by insecurity, people-pleasing, or hollow status chasing?
In this wide-ranging and intellectually explosive conversation, Yaron Brook sits down with psychologist, entrepreneur-coach, and forthcoming Penguin Random House author Dr. Gena Gorlin to expose the hidden beliefs that sabotage ambitious people, kill great startups, and quietly erode self-trust.
If you’re driven—but often frustrated… successful—but oddly unsatisfied… or building something meaningful while battling self-doubt—this episode is for you.
This is not pop psychology.
This is a serious, values-driven examination of what it means to build a life worth wanting.
đź“Ś Tune in for sharp analysis, bold ideas, and live audience Q&A
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About Dr. Gena Gorlin (Ph.D.) :
Dr. Gena Gorlin (Ph.D.) is a clinical associate professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin and a licensed therapist. As a founder/entrepreneur coach, she works with leading innovators in Silicon Valley and globally. She is currently working on a forthcoming book with Penguin Random House about her unique approach to ambition. For more about Dr. Gorlin, see her website: https://genagorlin.com
⏱️ MAIN TOPIC TIMESTAMPS
01:00 – Who is Dr. Gena Gorlin?
01:45 – The book: ambition redefined
04:55 – What ambitious people actually need
09:50 – Major themes: self-trust, values, agency
15:15 – The hidden belief that kills great startups
22:55 – Who this book is really for
25:10 – Self-trust vs. self-esteem
33:20 – Secondhandedness and borrowed ambition
35:40 – Book release timeline
36:40 – Gena’s Substack: https://builders.genagorlin.com/
đź’¬ LIVE AUDIENCE QUESTIONS
39:07 – Is the reason/emotion dichotomy rooted in brain hemispheres—or is that a myth?
41:46 – What does “visibility” mean in relationships—and why does it matter?
46:24 – What does it mean when visibility flows only one way?
48:05 – Would Ayn Rand still have used the word selfishness if she’d raised toddlers?
51:52 – Should psychology aim at happiness, not just treating neurosis?
57:12 – Can neuroplasticity really change a mind through persuasion?
1:00:03 – Should a healthy adult with no interest in sex see a therapist?
1:03:14 – Pride vs. mercy: overcoming resistance to moral ambition
1:05:59 – What is “narcissistic supply”?
1:08:23 – Narcissist vs. sociopath: kind or degree?
1:09:04 – Psychological analysis of Donald Trump: genuine ambition or not?
1:09:42 – Is self-doubt the default human setting?
1:12:48 – Will there be an audiobook?
1:12:55 – Is pornography psychologically harmful—what does the evidence say?
1:14:22 – Is “Trump Derangement Syndrome” real psychology?
1:16:08 – Freud vs. Jung: any value left?
1:18:31 – Ketamine and depression: what does science actually show?
1:20:29 – Gena’s PhD research on rumination
1:22:38 – How long-range should ambitious goals be?
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Conversation with Gena Gorlin -- Defining a Life of Genuine Ambition | Yaron Brook Show
Defining a Life of Genuine Ambition: Why Self-Trust, Not Hustle or Status, Separates the Builders from the Burnouts
What does real ambition look like—when it’s not driven by insecurity, people-pleasing, or hollow status chasing?
In this wide-ranging and intellectually explosive conversation, Yaron Brook sits down with psychologist, entrepreneur-coach, and forthcoming Penguin Random House author Dr. Gena Gorlin to expose the hidden beliefs that sabotage ambitious people, kill great startups, and quietly erode self-trust.
If you’re driven—but often frustrated… successful—but oddly unsatisfied… or building something meaningful while battling self-doubt—this episode is for you.
- We dive deep into:
- -- The psychology of genuine ambition vs. performative striving
- -- Why secondhandedness is ambition’s silent killer
- -- The role of self-trust in entrepreneurship, relationships, and creativity
- -- Whether psychology should aim at human flourishing, not just pathology
- -- Narcissism, sociopathy, Trump, Elon Musk, ketamine, neuroplasticity, pornography, pride, Freud, Jung—and much more
This is not pop psychology.
This is a serious, values-driven examination of what it means to build a life worth wanting.
đź“Ś Tune in for sharp analysis, bold ideas, and live audience Q&A
👉 Subscribe for more content that challenges the status quo.
đź”— Watch the full episode: https://youtube.com/live/4gq_ptDzxCA
About Dr. Gena Gorlin (Ph.D.) :
Dr. Gena Gorlin (Ph.D.) is a clinical associate professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin and a licensed therapist. As a founder/entrepreneur coach, she works with leading innovators in Silicon Valley and globally. She is currently working on a forthcoming book with Penguin Random House about her unique approach to ambition. For more about Dr. Gorlin, see her website: https://genagorlin.com
⏱️ MAIN TOPIC TIMESTAMPS
01:00 – Who is Dr. Gena Gorlin?
01:45 – The book: ambition redefined
04:55 – What ambitious people actually need
09:50 – Major themes: self-trust, values, agency
15:15 – The hidden belief that kills great startups
22:55 – Who this book is really for
25:10 – Self-trust vs. self-esteem
33:20 – Secondhandedness and borrowed ambition
35:40 – Book release timeline
36:40 – Gena’s Substack: https://builders.genagorlin.com/
đź’¬ LIVE AUDIENCE QUESTIONS
39:07 – Is the reason/emotion dichotomy rooted in brain hemispheres—or is that a myth?
41:46 – What does “visibility” mean in relationships—and why does it matter?
46:24 – What does it mean when visibility flows only one way?
48:05 – Would Ayn Rand still have used the word selfishness if she’d raised toddlers?
51:52 – Should psychology aim at happiness, not just treating neurosis?
57:12 – Can neuroplasticity really change a mind through persuasion?
1:00:03 – Should a healthy adult with no interest in sex see a therapist?
1:03:14 – Pride vs. mercy: overcoming resistance to moral ambition
1:05:59 – What is “narcissistic supply”?
1:08:23 – Narcissist vs. sociopath: kind or degree?
1:09:04 – Psychological analysis of Donald Trump: genuine ambition or not?
1:09:42 – Is self-doubt the default human setting?
1:12:48 – Will there be an audiobook?
1:12:55 – Is pornography psychologically harmful—what does the evidence say?
1:14:22 – Is “Trump Derangement Syndrome” real psychology?
1:16:08 – Freud vs. Jung: any value left?
1:18:31 – Ketamine and depression: what does science actually show?
1:20:29 – Gena’s PhD research on rumination
1:22:38 – How long-range should ambitious goals be?
đź“Ś See pinned comment for additional timestamps.
The Yaron Brook Show is Sponsored by:
-- The Ayn Rand Institute (https://www.aynrand.org/starthere)
-- Energy Talking Points, featuring AlexAI, by Alex Epstein (https://alexepstein.substack.com/)
-- Express VPN (https://www.expressvpn.com/yaron)
-- Hendershott Wealth Management (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X4lfC...) https://hendershottwealth.com/ybs/
-- Michael Williams & The Defenders of Capitalism Project (https://www.DefendersOfCapitalism.com)
Join this channel to get access to perks: / @yaronbrook
Like what you hear? Like, share, and subscribe to stay updated on new videos and help promote the Yaron Brook Show: https://bit.ly/3ztPxTx
Support the Show and become a sponsor:
/ yaronbrookshow or https://yaronbrookshow.com/ or / yaronbrookshow
Or make a one-time donation: https://bit.ly/2RZOyJJ
Continue the discussion by following Yaron on Twitter (https://bit.ly/3iMGl6z) and Facebook (https://bit.ly/3vvWDDC )
Want to learn more about Ayn Rand and Objectivism? Visit the Ayn Rand Institute: https://bit.ly/35qoEC3
#GenuineAmbition #PsychologyOfSuccess #YaronBrookShow #SelfTrust #EntrepreneurMindset #HumanFlourishing #ClinicalPsychology #Objectivism #StartupPsychology #PersonalDevelopment
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/yaron-brook-show--3276901/support.