Skip The Small Talk with Ellie Middleton who the HECK is this gal?! 𤨠| Skip The Small Talk with Ellie Middleton
Sep 29, 2024
Join a captivating conversation that dives deep into the struggles of procrastination and perfectionism. Discover the tension around commitment issues and how creating a relaxed podcast format can help. Explore the intriguing concept of being a 'warm girl' versus a 'cool gal' and its impact on personal identity. Ellie unapologetically shares her journey of vulnerability, highlighting how genuine connections flourish when we let our true selves shine. It's a heartfelt exploration of authenticity, boundaries, and embracing one's unique personality!
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Start With A Shitty First Draft
- Try posting a "shitty first draft" to overcome perfectionism and start projects fast.
- Use low-lift, informal creation so commitment fears and overplanning don't stop you.
Commitment Anxiety Hides As Perfectionism
- Commitment anxiety can mask as perfectionism and stop you from starting.
- Making a project low-effort reveals whether it's genuinely worth committing to long-term.
Masking Transfers To Online Persona
- Ellie links masking online to over-preparing and controlling how others perceive her.
- Skipping the small talk lets her be a fuller person than a constant neurodiversity educator.