#349 Fantasies, Batin' and Continuous Datin' (to End Sex Ruts) - with The Horny Housewife

Oct 3, 2023

The Horny Housewife, a hilarious and knowledgeable guest, joins the hosts for a conversation on sex ruts. They explore what a sex rut is, the role of sexual fantasies in shifting the rut, and the importance of 'dating your spouse'. They also discuss the benefits of self-pleasure and how it can lead to better sex. Overall, they provide honest and open insights into sex and relationships, aiming to help individuals find more pleasure and playfulness in their lives.

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Introduction

00:00 • 6min

Tips for Getting Laid with Older Women

05:44 • 15min

Navigating Sexual Ruts in Relationships

21:04 • 13min

Taking Action to Improve Your Sex Life and Navigating Sexual Rut in a Relationship

33:45 • 3min

Communicating Desires and Overcoming Sexual Ruts

36:24 • 13min

Fantasies and Porn: Exploring Desires and Preferences

49:51 • 5min

The Importance of Solo Sexual Exploration and Mutual Masturbation

54:23 • 23min

In the last couple of week's we've talked about sexless relationships and how to keep the fire burning in long-term partnerships, and now we are continuing the conversation with the hilarious and knowledgable Horny Housewife - specifically on "sex ruts". What is a "sex rut", why does it happen, and what can couple's do to get out of it? How can implementing sexual fantasies shift the rut? Why is “dating your spouse” so important? And does batin' aka self-pleasure really help with sex ruts and lead to better sex?

About our guest: Jordyn Hakes is a Washington-based sex and marriage expert, wife, mom, and host of the top-ranking podcast, The Horny Housewife. Through her quick-witted humor and no-nonsense approach to sex and relationships, Jordyn offers listeners an honest and open look into the complexities of sex, marriage, society, and culture. She is passionate about helping others find more pleasure and playfulness in their relationships and sex lives while creating an inviting and supportive environment where individuals can explore their desires without judgment or shame. Listeners can also unlock a new level of foreplay and explore new worlds of intimacy with Jordyn's Patreon, where you can subscribe and listen to erotica read aloud, support the podcast, and discover the written humor and frank advice, Jordyn brings sex talk – from the basics to your wildest fantasies – out of the locker room and into your living room. An influential voice in the community and across social media, her expertise has been featured in Women's Health and Cosmopolitan. To learn more visit thehornyhousewifepodcast.com.

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